My boyfriend has been on dating sites
Holding yourself to a different set of rules than you’re holding your partner to can also be a red flag for abuse.
Did you go through your partner’s phone or their computer to see what they were doing?
If you haven’t already defined the terms of your relationship, this might be a sign that it’s time to have that conversation.
Do you two want to casually date and still be able to meet other people?
All it takes is a simple swipe right, and you could be matched instantly!
But what if you find out that someone you’re already dating has a profile on one of these apps?
To start, it’s important to acknowledge how you discovered your partner was on a dating app.
Were you yourself swiping for new matches when you came across their profile?
If you think it’s okay for you to look for someone new but aren’t okay with your partner doing so, that isn’t really fair.
but we got back together and i thought we were on our way to work things out. why is he on this site if not to look for someone else.. I was also thinking that If he goes on a date I just turn up. At the same time I could just join i and address the issue might as well while I'm there... It was a kind of self harm which again nobody knows because I find it embarrassing.
But for some reason my gut told me something was off.yes! I found on his computer chat conversations he was having with random girls .. In one of those chats he introduces himself."such in such" from POF.. The profile says hes just there looking for friends, that he isnt seeking commitment or relationship. However all other info like city and age are also false. I felt I'm not lovable and well ..hated myself for it.