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Based on this reasoning, we have shunned a standard proposal and wedding ceremony, because if I had asked her to marry me (which I did not) then I would have given her the decision to marry me rather than selecting her and taking her myself.
Furthermore, if we had exchanged conventional marriage vows, our union would have been based on X’s will and consent, which are not Biblical factors for marriage or salvation.
I am so grateful that I got out before I had a chance to the biblical principle of a man selecting and taking a wife for himself.
I am afraid, since the idea comes straight from scripture, I very well may have gone along with my daughters’ father coming to an “unbreakable arrangement” for a “godly” young man to “take them” in marriage. It is a trap – a life-sucking quagmire – to attempt to order one’s family life according to a worldview which teaches that whatever is in the bible is necessarily “biblical” and normative for all times and all cultures.
Some of you attorneys and statesmen reading this should get together and come up with an approach that will have credibility and help to impact the political process. that’s “bible-believing” extremism for you – and it’s not enough to practice these ideals for themselves and their children, “biblical family values” must become the law of the land.He particularly cautioned them to guard against impatience.Especially since Maranatha was rather young, their wedding might be quite a long way off yet.guest-post " data-medium-file="https://kmrciugjeu-flywheel.netdna-ssl.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/guest-post-300x202.jpg" data-large-file="https://kmrciugjeu-flywheel.netdna-ssl.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/guest-post.jpg" class="lazy lazy-hidden alignnone size-full wp-image-5465" src="//brucegerencser.net/wp-content/plugins/a3-lazy-load/assets/images/lazy_placeholder.gif" data-lazy-type="image" data-src="https://kmrciugjeu-flywheel.netdna-ssl.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/guest-post.jpg" alt="guest-post" width="595" height="400" srcset="" data-srcset="https://kmrciugjeu-flywheel.netdna-ssl.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/595w, https://kmrciugjeu-flywheel.netdna-ssl.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/guest-post-300x202300w" sizes="(max-width: 595px) 100vw, 595px" /As Bible-believing Baptists who hold to reformed theology, X and I believe that God is sovereign in choosing who will or will not believe in him, having chosen his people before the foundation of the world (see Ephesians 1), and that his selection is unbreakable and irresistible.If marriage is to mirror this principle, we believe that a woman has no right to select a husband for herself, but that she is to be chosen by a man and marriage is to be an unbreakable arrangement between the man and her father.