Japanese teen dating
Hence the bridal marketing and fems-use-for-free policy.Pairs does not consider itself deiaikei for this reason, he explains.So why is the subject so touchy in Japan, a technologically hip country (their ketai cellphones surfed the Web long before our smart phones) that otherwise seems comfortable discussing sex?Given Japan’s dating and demographic crisis, why the squeamishness about meeting in cyberspace?
On a recent trip there, I often asked people if they or their friends were involved with web dating, and time and again they shook their heads.
In the late ’90s, Catfish-style frauds metastasized at a corporate scale: whole “online dating” offices were set up, staffed by employees of both genders (known as sakura, or cherry blossoms) who played the part of fake women.
Sakura kept multiple cell phones and email accounts.
“Please do not include or ask for any personal identifying information in your first message,” it reads, explaining that it is against policy for users to expose anything real about themselves right off the bat. Online dating in Japan has a shady history, which is part of the reason people are less comfortable with it than they are in the U. Japanese web users have traditionally preferred anonymity online, opting for pseudonyms or social gaming handles instead of real names, cartoon avatars instead of photographs.
Early on in the Japanese online dating scene you could never be confident the person you met on a dating site was real.