Dating girls who like anal sex

(*as long as it’s consensual, but come on, do I really have to specify that?

) Some women do report stronger orgasms as a direct result of anal sex.

If you can’t accept and love someone’s whole body, how are you ever going to accept and love their whole heart? Many times what’s in people’s hearts is far dirtier and more shameful than what’s in their assholes.

But it’s not an uncommon stance lately, particularly after Gillian Flynn’s now-infamous “cool girl” rant from “Gone Girl” that says women who enjoy sex acts that may be perceived as male-appeasing fantasies, such as anal penetration, are faking their interest in order to attract and keep men in a competitive dating environment. I’m a woman who likes anal sex, and I’m going to turn the tables here and say I think it’s weird that you think that’s weird.Finally there are women who may enjoy anal sex because they enjoy pleasing their partners.(As a service-oriented submissive, I fall into this category, too.) And newsflash: It’s totally OK to enjoy something because you enjoy pleasing the person you’re with.To imply that women who choose to have a certain kind of sex because they enjoy satisfying their partners is offensively patronizing.Personally I think most women are big girls who are capable of making decisions about the kinds of sex they do and do not want to have, and I trust every consenting adult to act in their own best interest.

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