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And he will have taken steps – in the words of Captain Picard – to “make it so”.

But if you are here because you are still not sure – and you don’t believe me – then ask him how he feels and what’s going on.

He doesn't drink, doesn't say vulgarities with every breath and him and I both were raised baptists and think a lot alike in many areas.

We were not sleeping together because I couldn't stomach the smell of liqour on his breath and our room smelt like a brewery.He hates being alone and is the type person that will not do well alone.Now, I am sure you are thinking that this is way too soon for both of us.However, he tells me that he did the majority of his grieving earlier this year when his wife started going downhill.She was basically brain dead for the last 6 months of her life.