Boyfriend dating another girl
Even if she (and he) insists that she wants to go as just friends, you definitely have a prom dilemma on your hands. First of all, you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him exactly how you feel.
If you’re going to be in a relationship with someone, you should be open and honest with them. He has to know how you’re feeling; that way he’ll be more likely to understand why you don’t want him to go to another girl’s prom.
Maybe you're even juniors or seniors and talking about going to your own prom together.
But then he gets asked by a friend from another school to go to her prom with her.
He says it's not a big deal because he loves only me, and it was just a friendly gesture. (This probably doesn't matter a lot, but we are in a long distance relationship, so any confrontation would be electronic.)*Let's start off by commiserating: In your shoes, I would most definitely be annoyed with Michelle.
Especially in a situation where she's now living with your boyfriend, she should take effort to be respectful of everyone involved: you, your boyfriend, and her own boyfriend!
Why should he have to just grin and bear it so they don't feel uncomfortable?
But I think it's his problem to handle since it's his living situation.
But, I think it's rational AND fair to encourage Carl to talk to his roommates, especially about privacy in his room (knocking should be a household rule! I understand that he doesn't want to cause tension, but it's obviously causing tension for him, or he wouldn't tell you about it!
He says it's not a big deal because he loves only me, and it was just a friendly gesture. (This probably doesn't matter a lot, but we are in a long distance relationship, so any confrontation would be electronic.) Let's start off by commiserating: In your shoes, Our reader is facing a little V-Day drama with another woman in her boyfriend's life, and she's not feeling all hearts and roses about it. She writes:*My boyfriend, "Carl", and I have been dating for a year and a half.
He has always been committed to me, and I trust him, but I think his roommate's girlfriend crosses the line all the time.
If your boyfriend is committed to being with you, then he will respect what you have to say and won’t go to the prom with her. Telling your boyfriend that you don’t want him to go on any other dates (prom or otherwise) is totally reasonable and good place to start.
But if your boyfriend puts up a fight and pushes back and goes to prom with her anyway, you may want to rethink the person you’re with.