15 year old daughter dating 18 year old
It doesn't matter what a person's sex is, it is about the person and that's fine, we have no issue with that.
We had a big argument about it and we told her straight out that she is not flying to California to meet someone.
Yes my wife and I have spoiled her, she is an only child and as a result, she is not very independent.
We take her to school, take her to and from her job, she has never had a serious boyfriend or girlfriend. We have her passport and her birth certificate so she cant fly out of the country, but now last night she told us that she is going to go to California in April when she turns 18 no matter what. We don't think its safe, my wife is in tears, its affecting us so much that it consumes our days. We don't even know if this girl is who she says she is.
But maybe by being supportive in the right ways it may be possible.
If the story is true, then the other girl's strict parents are obviously getting in the way of the two girls getting a chance to meet.
Apparently the girl in California has "strict" parents so my daughter thinks she can stay in a hotel and just hope that this girl can get away to see her.
My research shows 4 aliases on the phone number and 5 sealed court documents which are serious. How do we convince our extremely stubborn and head strong daughter that this is a bad idea?Maybe even talk to an adult in her life (and get their contact).Also get a direct contact to the girl in CA, to be used strictly in case you cannot get a hold of your daughter (test call so that its hers).And having your daughter go alone and the other girl try to sneak out without her parents knowing is clearly not a good idea.And even that could get your daughter into trouble once those strict parents learn what is happening.